Heart and Head Coaching provides new direction for your relationship. We give you a new perspective on the relationship and teach each partner how to truly understand the other one. With the deeper understanding in place, you're able to reconnect and find the love that was there in the beginning. If you're ready to get back to being on the same team, Heart and Head Coaching has the tools to get you there - regardless of the bad decisions, arguments or history.
We look forward - so you two can too.
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Rob & Elizabeth's Story
Rob and Elizabeth were on the verge of divorce when they found Randy and Beverly at Heart and Head Coaching. They'd been to counselors. They'd fought. They'd considered divorce. They loved one another but they just couldn't connect any more. Elizabeth was frantic and Rob was exhausted. As they sat down in our office, Elizabeth cried and pulled a list out of her purse of all the things that Rob had done to make her feel this way. Rob crossed his arms and looked nervously at the door. Five minutes in and he was ready to leave.
Rob and Elizabeth came to us because they needed something different. Traditional marriage counseling approaches had failed them. We don't provide traditional counseling. We aren't doctors or therapists - just a married couple who happen to be communication experts, social scientists, and human behavior nerds. We do it differently. We don't need months to get up to speed on the past. We need to get you both communicating again... right away. This is about creating the relationship you want. You can find that again, just like Rob and Elizabeth did.
9,000+
Clients
14+ years
Coaching Experience
5 Stars
Clients Love Us
What Our Clients Say
"Randy and Beverly are amazing. My wife and I went through the biggest test of our 7 year marriage. The sessions ... changed our relationship forever. Our marriage has been stronger than ever."
MR & CR, SoCal
"What can we say? Randy and Beverly saved our marriage. We were struggling with trust issues and had fired four therapists. It was only through this amazing couple and the strategies they taught us that we learned to communicate and slowly build back trust. Thank you from the bottom of my heart."
TT & LT, Honolulu
"We found solutions!! They guided us from head side and heart side so that we understand why we have the miscommunication and the misunderstandings. It's not easy to love someone. Thank you for the quality time!"
AB, Japan
* Results described are individual experiences. Results are gathered from publicly provided online reviews or email follow up shared with permission. Your results will vary based on many factors, including both you and your partner's commitment and effort.
Frequently Asked Questions - FAQs
What services do you offer?
We offer 2:2 personalized communication coaching for couples. We are award winning authors of several relationship books and we host one of the fastest growing relationship podcasts in the United States. You can learn more about our services by using the main menu at the top of the page.
How do I get started?
Start with the affordable stuff... listen to that podcast, it's free. There are dozens and dozens of episodes that will get you and your partner talking about love, needs, triggers and much more. If you want to work with us, book a free phone consultation on the Coaching page.
Do you offer virtual sessions?
Yes! We can do couples sessions in-person in our downtown Honolulu office but there are many other options. Phone sessions are always available and great to choose if you're in an area with slow internet connectivity. We can also use Zoom, FaceTime or WhatsApp if those are more your jam. And if you want the ultimate in convenience, we can come to your location anywhere on the planet using our concierge/VIP program.
How often do sessions take place?
The three session work with couples is usually one session a week for three weeks. That said, we've got the ability to craft the work to fit your schedule and your needs. We've done full day intensives, three days in a row, one session a month and many other combinations. What works best for you?
How long is each session?
Sessions typically last 90 minutes to two hours. We heard from many clients that the old 50 minute counseling model seemed to get off track when the conversations really hit the deep stuff. We go longer to allow both partners to process, respond and be heard.
Is coaching confidential?
Absolutely. Everything shared during our coaching is kept private and confidential. In fact, we can provide NDA and bonded services for our clients that require additional assurances. Because we are not medical or mental health practitioners, we are not covered under HIPAA - the Federal privacy act. This means we are under no obligation to keep any records of our work with clients and can keep records under other identities - something state laws, insurance regulations and industry rules prohibit therapists from doing.
Do you offer payment plans?
Not usually but we do have some no interest options to spread the 3 session package pricing out a bit . That's offered through our credit card services provider.
What’s your cancellation policy?
We ask for 24-hour notice for cancellations on sessions, otherwise we charge a cancellation fee. That said, we're human. Stuff happens. We get it. Communicate. We'll work with ya.
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