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* Results described are individual experiences. Results are gathered from publicly provided online reviews or email follow up shared with permission. Your results will vary based on many factors, including both you and your partner's commitment and effort.
We offer 2:2 personalized communication coaching for couples. We are award winning authors of several relationship books and we host one of the fastest growing relationship podcasts in the United States. You can learn more about our services by using the main menu at the top of the page.
Start with the affordable stuff... listen to that podcast, it's free. There are dozens and dozens of episodes that will get you and your partner talking about love, needs, triggers and much more. If you want to work with us, book a free phone consultation on the Coaching page.
Yes! We can do couples sessions in-person in our downtown Honolulu office but there are many other options. Phone sessions are always available and great to choose if you're in an area with slow internet connectivity. We can also use Zoom, FaceTime or WhatsApp if those are more your jam. And if you want the ultimate in convenience, we can come to your location anywhere on the planet using our concierge/VIP program.
The three session work with couples is usually one session a week for three weeks. That said, we've got the ability to craft the work to fit your schedule and your needs. We've done full day intensives, three days in a row, one session a month and many other combinations. What works best for you?
Sessions typically last 90 minutes to two hours. We heard from many clients that the old 50 minute counseling model seemed to get off track when the conversations really hit the deep stuff. We go longer to allow both partners to process, respond and be heard.
Absolutely. Everything shared during our coaching is kept private and confidential. In fact, we can provide NDA and bonded services for our clients that require additional assurances. Because we are not medical or mental health practitioners, we are not covered under HIPAA - the Federal privacy act. This means we are under no obligation to keep any records of our work with clients and can keep records under other identities - something state laws, insurance regulations and industry rules prohibit therapists from doing.
Not usually but we do have some no interest options to spread the 3 session package pricing out a bit . That's offered through our credit card services provider.
We ask for 24-hour notice for cancellations on sessions, otherwise we charge a cancellation fee. That said, we're human. Stuff happens. We get it. Communicate. We'll work with ya.
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